Shaking my fist at spam!

Mar 20 2012

No Junk MailI don’t know about other bloggers, but I get genuinely excited when a person leaves a comment on my blog. It’s just nice to know that someone, somewhere, is responding to something I wrote. I have a strong suspicion I’m not the only blogger who feels this way, either.

In the 2009 movie Julie & Julia, there is a scene where Julie gets the first reader comment on her blog, and it’s really validating for her. Sure, the comment was from her mom, but it proved that she wasn’t writing in a vacuum.

When I get an email notification that someone has left a comment on Peculiar Girl, I think, “Yay!” and immediately head over to read it. Many times, it’s a real comment from a real person. Real comments make my day. Honestly. I heart you, real people who read my blog.

Lately, I’d say at least 5 times a day, the comments I receive are just blatant attempts by spammers to promote their own websites or products. Comments like this suck.

It takes me time to identify and delete the spam comments. This is time I could be using for something far more productive, and time I’ll never get back. Not only that, but I’m tired of having my hopes repeatedly dashed by dirty rotten spammers.

It’s not that I need reader comments, but I do genuinely enjoy getting feedback from all of you, and the spammers are ruining it. Now, when I get an email notification about a new comment, instead of “Yay!” my first thought is an R-rated version of, “Why don’t those poopy-head spammers get a gosh-darned life already!”

Spammers have turned me into a cynic in just a few short months. Here are some examples of what I’m talking about, with the links removed.

This particular comment isn’t overtly spammy, but I can tell by the name and address of the poster, that this comment is intended to generate clicks for his business, and not really a compliment about my “insight.”

I get lots of spam comments promising printable coupons. Mostly for products I couldn’t care less about.

This one almost fooled me. I felt bad for a second until I noticed the name of the poster. Good-bye, Spammy McSpamington!

What a nice thing for boner pills to say about my blog. I’m flattered. *Blush*

Ugh. See what I mean?

Until this point I haven’t felt it necessary to use an anti-spam filter such as CAPTCHA, which generates distorted text that humans can read but spam-bots cannot.

I will be doing some research to find out which anti-spam measures work the best and annoy my readers the least. If any of my fellow bloggers have recommendations, I’d love to hear them.

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Sinners don’t deserve health care

Mar 14 2012

Stocks, Schloss Berg

I propose a new health care system in this country, one regulated by morality. People who are “good” pay less and have more options, and people who are “bad” pay more or are denied services altogether. I don’t know about you, but I certainly don’t want my hard-earned money paying to treat moral degenerates.

Take murder, for example. Most people would probably agree that murder is immoral. Since murder is immoral, isn’t it fair of me to expect murderers to pay more for health care than I, a non-murderer, do.

Thieves, rapists, drug dealers… all obviously immoral. They clearly don’t deserve health care. It’s not even worth arguing about.

And if you were seriously injured in a car accident, and the accident was your fault because you were legally intoxicated at the time, it’s only logical that your surgery should cost significantly more, because your “loose morals” got you into that situation in the first place. Am I right?

Suicide is self-murder, so that must be morally wrong also. If someone attempts suicide but does not die, shouldn’t she be charged more for her hospital stay, pay a fine, or be denied access to medical care altogether? I mean, it was her choice to attempt suicide. Why should the rest of us have to pay?

The Bible says gluttony is a sin, so we can easily add gluttony to the list. For starters, everyone who develops diabetes as a result of obesity can pay for insulin out of pocket. I shouldn’t have to pay a higher premium just because Fatty opens his mouth for every piece of cake he sees. I’m just telling it like it is.

Don’t even get me started on lust. Why should we force insurance companies to cover birth control? Everyone knows only sluts use birth control. If they don’t want babies, they shouldn’t be having sex…

Sound familiar?

It’s a very slippery slope when we start denying or restricting health care based on moral judgments, which is exactly what cutting all federal funding to Planned Parenthood and requiring women to have an ultrasound before obtaining an abortion are doing.

While I may be persuaded that religious institutions shouldn’t have to cover medications and procedures that go against their tenets, if the Blunt amendment had passed, and it nearly did, any employer would have the right to refuse to cover any kind of health care service by citing “moral reasons.”

A proposed law in Arizona (yes, this is real) could give employers the right to fire women who use birth control.

Did I unknowingly fall asleep and wake up in Salem in 1692? It smells like a witch hunt to me.

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Vegan Senegalese Vegetable Stew

Mar 06 2012

Vegan Senegalese Vegetable Stew

This is one of my all-time favorite vegan recipes. It’s a spicy stew of winter vegetables such as cabbage, sweet potatoes, and rutabaga, along with chickpeas, tomatoes, peanut butter, and as many Scotch Bonnet peppers (also called habeneros) as you can handle. Vegan Senegalese Vegetable Stew is easy to prepare, although it does require a lot of chopping. Once that’s done, the rest goes fairly quickly. The stew is served over a bed of cooked millet.

The Republic of Senegal is a country in West Africa, along the Atlantic Coast. Peanuts are the primary crop, and are incorporated into many recipes. Meats and vegetables are typically stewed or marinated in herbs and spices, and then served over rice or couscous, or simply eaten with bread.

Not for the faint of heart, this vegan stew is SPICY! If you like your food on the tamer side, reduce the cayenne pepper and number of chilies, or omit them all together. Tom and I love hot food, but even we can’t handle the six chilies this recipe calls for. I usually make it with four.

Scotch Bonnet chilies are usually green, orange, or red. They look like this:

Scotch Bonnet peppers

Vegan Senegalese Vegetable Stew

Serves: 6-8

Ingredients:

2 tablespoons oil
3 cups coarsely chopped cabbage (about ½ medium-sized head)
1 medium onion, chopped
2 garlic cloves, minced
½ tablespoon cayenne pepper
(optional)
6 scotch bonnet peppers, whole (optional, I use 4)
1/2 tablespoon curry powder
1/2 tablespoon dried thyme
2 (14.5-oz.) cans diced tomatoes, undrained
2 cups vegetable stock (or water)
4 tablespoons creamy peanut butter (chunky works, too)
3 cups sweet potatoes, cubed
(about 2 medium sweet potatoes)
2 cups rutabaga, cubed
(about ½ small cabbage)
3 carrots, sliced into ¼-inch thick
1 (15-oz.) can chickpeas, drained and rinsed
Salt, to taste

Directions:

Heat the oil over medium heat in a large stockpot and add the cabbage, onion, and garlic. Cook, stirring frequently, until the cabbage begins to soften.

Add the cayenne pepper, curry powder, and thyme. Cook for a minute, and then add the tomatoes. Cook about 3 minutes more, until the tomatoes are heated through. It will look something like this.

Step 3

Add the peanut butter and the stock to the pan and stir to combine. Next, add the vegetables, chickpeas, and chilies.

Simmer until veggies are tender

Bring the stew to a boil, and then reduce to a simmer and cook, uncovered, for about 30 minutes or until the vegetables are tender.

Remove the peppers from the stew and set aside. Serve the stew on a bed of millet and place the whole peppers on top. Traditionally, guests mash a pepper into their stew before eating.

About millet:

You may know millet only as the main ingredient in birdseed, but millet is delicious for people, too. It’s also gluten-free. Millet is a small, round grain and can be white, gray, yellow, or red. The yellow variety is most readily available near me. Here is what it looks like uncooked:

Toast the millet

To make moist millet that is similar to rice in texture, toast 1 cup of millet in a dry pan for a few minutes until it starts to pop and releases a nutty fragrance. Carefully add 2 cups of water to the pan. Bring to a boil and then simmer 20-25 minutes, until all of the water is absorbed. Turn off heat and let stand, covered, for 5 minutes.

If you’ve never prepared millet before, get more detailed instructions on the Vegan Coach website.

This stew is also excellent served over brown rice, quinoa, or couscous.

The Vegan Senegalese Vegetable Stew recipe was adapted from this recipe, which I found online.

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A new compassionate lifestyle blog

Mar 01 2012

Last month I wrote that I was considering changing the name of Peculiar Girl, and asked for your input. I got so much wonderful feedback, and was happy to learn that the current name resonates with you. I’ve been writing more about compassion and kindness lately, and was considering taking Peculiar Girl in that direction. Several of you said you would miss my rants and humorous posts if I did, but you would support my new blog regardless. That is so touching, and I thank you for the support.

After much consideration and planning, I’ve decided to keep Peculiar Girl as is. Since this blog is still new and growing, I think it would do more harm than good to make such a big change.

So the big news is (cue trumpets) that I have launched a second blog, one that is purely focused on simple ways to live with greater compassion. The blog is called The Daily Kind, with the tagline, “Everyday compassion for earth, others, self.” My husband Tom will be a contributing writer. Our plan is to post daily tips for compassionate living that anyone can do, encouraging people to make small changes that lead to big benefits, such as increased happiness and a renewed sense of purpose. Here’s a screenshot of the home page:

Isn’t it pretty? The logo and graphics were designed by Erica Hess.

I hope you’ll follow our new blog, and be assured that Peculiar Girl isn’t going anywhere. I still plan to post here at least once a week about all things peculiar.

You can read the first few posts on The Daily Kind at http://thedailykind.com. You can also follow The Daily Kind on Facebook and Twitter. I’m anxious to hear what you think. And please, tell your friends!

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My struggles with SAD

Feb 28 2012

StruggleThis time of year, all I want to do is sleep. I’ve never been diagnosed with Seasonal Affective Disorder by a doctor, but I have almost all of the symptoms. They come back every winter like clockwork, and seem to be getting worse as I get older. I struggle the most with SAD in late February and early March, when it tends to be rainy and gray, like today.

According to the Mayo Clinic, winter-onset seasonal affective disorder symptoms include:

  • Depression
  • Hopelessness
  • Anxiety
  • Loss of energy
  • Heavy, “leaden” feeling in the arms or legs
  • Social withdrawal
  • Oversleeping
  • Loss of interest in activities you once enjoyed
  • Appetite changes, especially a craving for foods high in carbohydrates
  • Weight gain
  • Difficulty concentrating

I can answer yes to most of these, except hopelessness and “leaden” arms and legs. I do feel both sad and anxious, have gained at least 10 pounds since November, have trouble focusing on my work, and can’t seem to make it through the day without napping. I also haven’t felt very social.

The high-carb cravings are definitely true, too.  So far today I’ve eaten a bowl of oatmeal, mashed potatoes & rutabaga, pinto beans & rice, and a banana. Nary a vegetable or piece of fruit in the mix.

The exact cause of SAD is still unknown. Age, genetics, and body chemistry are believed to play a role. Both of my parents suffer from SAD, so I’m not surprised that I do as well. Their solution is to spend the winters in Florida, which doesn’t make sense for us right now.

I think my SAD has gotten worse since I’ve been working from home. My guess is it’s because when I worked in an office, I had access to endless streams of caffeine (free soda) and a vending machine full of junk food. There’s no such thing as tired when you’re pumped full of Diet Coke, jalapeno potato chips, and M&Ms.

These days I try to manage my SAD by taking Vitamin D supplements, getting out for daily walks with the dog (which we didn’t do today because of the rain), and talking about my symptoms with friends and family. I also plan to discuss my symptoms with my doctor at my next appointment.

Do you struggle with SAD in the fall and winter? What strategies have worked or not worked for you?

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